So, we’ve moved to a small conservative town in Northern Alberta and I’ve decided that I am going to send my awkward, reserved, non binary kid to public school 😬
But here’s the thing. This small town conservative school has already shown how amazing they are.
Recently, I met with a couple of staff members at the school to discuss Beckett’s needs as a non binary trans kid. They were incredibly open minded and genuinely eager to learn about Beck and all things transgender related.
Some of the questions/concerns that came up were:
- When the class goes to the swimming pool, which change room will Beckett use? We will let Beckett make this decision at the time, knowing that it may even change from one time to the next.
- Because they are going into French immersion, what is the French alternative for they/them pronouns? Does anyone know the answer to this??
- How do we best address the question of are they a boy or a girl? Because we know that Beck’s peers are going to insist on knowing. Still trying to figure this one out. Any advice/tips would be greatly appreciated.
Having a non binary kid and trying to navigate the world isn’t an easy task. Beckett’s teachers will now have to be proactive about not addressing the class as boys and girls. Their classmates are going to learn that not everyone is male or female. Most importantly, Beckett is going to have to learn how to be an advocate for themselves without always having the direct back up of their parent or older siblings.
In September, Beckett will be starting kindergarten! And they are actually excited, as long as they don’t have to make friends 🙄 They are such the opposite to their social butterfly siblings.
*This is all new territory for us, so if you’ve previously navigated any of these situations, please share any advice or tips in the comment section.*